Indeed, many women are difficult to reach orgasm.Studies even show that 75 percent of women never reach climax from intercourse alone (without the help of sex toy or other stimulation), and 10-15 percent are not able to orgasm at all. But despite this it normal, do not think to leave. However, sex should satisfy both parties, is not it?
To find the base of your disability, try to consider four factors:
To find the base of your disability, try to consider four factors:
- Feel should always control myself, To get a satisfying sex session, you should really let go of the desire to control or curb. People who always want to control themselves and emotions will be difficult to achieve orgasm. Therefore, to achieve orgasm you really need to immerse themselves and enjoy the sex session without thinking about other things. Learn to be more loose. No need to regulate body gestures facial expressions (for example, for not too visible aroused), or voice. Let it go if the game you both make you breathless or want to enjoy even further.Do anything to indicate that berpasrah could be a positive experience.
- Unable to relax, Stress due to work load, or sitting in an office all day, also can make us do not realize how tense our muscles. Tense body condition makes it difficult to make myself relax enough to achieve orgasm. If indeed this happens to you, ask your partner to massage your body first. Calculated for foreplay. Thus, the mind also become more open, and the tense muscles also relax.
- Feeling self conscious, When making love, the body will remove the liquids, you will perform the positions that are not unusual, and perhaps also the sounds that you usually do not listen. If you include people who basically self-aware, the nature of sexual intimacy that feels "primitive" could hinder your ability to enjoy this session. Why focus on the things that might make you feel nervous or self conscious?After all, everyone is doing it, and it felt good.
- Embarrassed by their own body shape It is also very common in women. confident with a slightly distended abdomen, thighs are large, or wide hips. When the mind is only focused on disappointment because the body does not appear to shrink even if you've eaten rice diet for three months, the opportunity to get the climax is also more narrow. Identify the parts of your body, and learn to love what they are. If the husband does not care about your buttocks are already down, for example, why make a big deal?